In last week’s blogpost, I explained the importance of the college campus visit and how it impacts “demonstrated interest.” How can your son or daughter make the most of these trips? The answer, simply put, is pay attention to everything you see and hear; ask smart questions; take notes; and maintain connections. Here’s how.
Visit colleges on your preliminary list – this may seem obvious, but many families do not yet have a college list in place and make a trip to a college nearby just to begin the process. If your son/daughter has not yet met with the high school’s college counselor, make an appointment to speak with a guidance counselor to get some idea of which colleges make sense based on your student’s grades, and PSAT scores (if available). For students who do have a preliminary list, try to visit one “reach” school, and one “target” school to start. Leave the “safety” schools for later in the process. If you have time to visit several colleges, aim to see more “targets” than “reaches.”
Keep the number of trips reasonable – The campus visit is not a quick tour, especially these days when so much emphasis is placed on students finding the “best fit.” Prospective students need time to soak up the atmosphere on a given campus, to really look at the college students and to sense if this campus “feels right.” If your son/daughter feels enthusiastic being on this campus and can easily envision sitting in classes, and hanging out with, these college students, then he/she is closer to making a solid match.
Three Colleges A Week
Ideally, students should spend several hours at any one college so planning out the trips in a manageable way is important. If a college is in a city, or even a small town, spend time exploring the downtown area also. For these reasons, I recommend touring no more than three colleges in a week.
Pay close attention – to everything you see and hear and take notes. (Key Pointer: parents, this will inevitably become your job so make sure to write down your son/daughter’s thoughts and reactions.) During the information session, an admissions representative will recite a script about everything the college offers academically, socially, etc. Listen for what appeals to your son/daughter (and you!), and what does not. Most importantly, listen for features you have not heard from admissions representatives at other colleges as these are the aspects that make this school different.
Ask the Tour Guide
On the campus tour, a student guide will recite a script also, but here is the opportunity to go beyond the script. Try to get an honest answer to: what is the one thing about “X” College that has disappointed you? What is the number of students in your largest class and how many of these sized classes have you taken? What are the most popular clubs and organizations? What are the traditions that make this college unique?